another update:

~if you have a ds, bring it + games.  if you also have a wavebird for gamecube bring it, but i have 4 controllers if we want to play any gamecube games, so you don't have to bring one unless you want (but i have dibs on my wavebird)
~it better not be raining/thundering... but if it is, we'll still party
~byob means bring your own... beverage.  aka i'm not responsible for your drinks: bring money or your own.
~let me know if you get in touch w/ anyone on the 2nd list (other than graham) cuz i don't know their #s
~we need more girls!